Do You Stay Lonely?

Do You:

• Feel Shy?
• Keep to yourself?
• Feel afraid of other people?
• Experience others as hostile?
• Feel contact with others is unsafe?
  
• Feel safer by yourself?
• Feel it is safer to live in a world of your own?
  
• Use sex to feel alive?

The dreamer comes into the world believing it is basically a hostile place. Our natural reaction to others is to keep them at a distance. When threatened we tend to split off, ie dissociate from our surroundings. We retreat into a world of our own. This gives rise to the expression "the lights are on but no one's home."
If you relate to this it could be useful to check out the Dreamer in the Characterology section.